Thanksgiving gratitude questions
Skip the awkward “so, what are you thankful for?” Draw a question, pass the phone around the table, and let the stories come out.
Easy openers · 1 of 10
What's one small thing that made you smile this week?
All 40 Thanksgiving gratitude questions
Four sets, from easy openers to the ones for after dessert. Print them, cut them into cards, and put a bowl in the middle of the table.
Easy openers
- What's one small thing that made you smile this week?
- What food on this table are you most thankful for?
- What's the best thing that happened to you this year?
- Who here made your year a little better?
- What's a simple pleasure you'd never want to give up?
- What's something you're looking forward to this winter?
- What's a song you were grateful for this year?
- What's the nicest thing a stranger did for you recently?
- What made you laugh the hardest this year?
- What's one thing about today you want to remember?
A little deeper
- Who is someone you've never properly thanked?
- What's a hard moment this year that taught you something?
- What's something you have now that you once wished for?
- Who believed in you before you believed in yourself?
- What's a lesson from someone at this table you still use?
- When did you feel most at home this year?
- What's a change in your life you're grateful for, even if it was scary?
- What's one way you've grown since last Thanksgiving?
- What's a kindness you'd like to pass on to someone else?
- What are you thankful for that's easy to take for granted?
Family and memories
- What's your favorite Thanksgiving memory?
- What tradition in this family are you most thankful for?
- What's a recipe that reminds you of someone you love?
- What's something a grandparent taught you?
- Which family story do you hope gets told forever?
- What's one thing you appreciate about the person on your left?
- What's a moment this year when family showed up for you?
- What did you love most about where you grew up?
- Who would you love to have at this table next year?
- What's something about this family that makes you proud?
Light and fun
- What's the most useful thing you own?
- What everyday invention are you most thankful for?
- What app, gadget or tool saved you the most time this year?
- Which pet, yours or anyone's, made your year better?
- What's the best meal you had this year?
- What's a show or movie you were glad to find this year?
- What's the luckiest thing that happened to you this year?
- What's a skill you're glad you learned, even a silly one?
- Which season are you most grateful for, and why?
- If you could thank one person from history, who would it be?
How to use them at the table
- Start with an easy opener before the food arrives, while everyone is still finding their seat.
- Let anyone answer, in any order. Passing is always allowed.
- Ask a follow-up when an answer has a story in it: “what happened next?”
- Save the deeper set for dessert, when the table has slowed down.
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Questions, answered
How do you do gratitude at the Thanksgiving table?+
Keep it light and optional. Draw one question, let whoever wants to answer go first, and move on after a few answers. Easy openers work best before the meal; save the deeper questions for dessert, when people have relaxed.
What's a good question to ask instead of "What are you thankful for?"+
Make it specific. "What's one small thing that made you smile this week?" or "Who here made your year a little better?" are easier to answer than the big version, and the answers are usually more fun to hear.
Can I print these questions?+
Yes. Use "Print all questions" for a clean list of every question, grouped by set. Cut them into cards and put them in a bowl, or set one at each place.
What if someone doesn't want to answer?+
Let them pass. Gratitude questions work when they feel like an invitation, not a test. A quick "you can pass" at the start keeps the table relaxed.
How can I keep the gratitude going after Thanksgiving?+
Ask yourself one question each day. If you'd rather not have to remember, RingOwl Check-in calls you at a time you pick, asks a few short questions, and emails you the journal entry.
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